Back Door to Ecstasy

Who says the backdoor is just for bottoms?

Your anus is capable of body-shaking pleasure – it’s also the gateway to stimulating parts of your internal sexual anatomy that other kinds of touch can’t reach. Add in the deeply soothing effects of anal massage and you’ve got a recipe for everything from deep relaxation to blissful, lingering “valley” orgasms.

In Backdoor to Ecstasy, you’ll learn techniques for partnered anal massage and explore a guided, hands-on practice designed to create your own unique anal pleasure map.

Whether you’re a top, bottom, or side:

• Tops will become more attuned to their partners – and maybe even discover their own receptive joys.
• Bottoms will unlock fresh insight into the untapped pleasure potential of their anus.
• Sides will learn creative, non-penetrative ways to savour anal play.

We’ll challenge ‘bottom shame’ and celebrate anal pleasure as something everyone can enjoy. No partner required — just bring a sarong, a hand towel and your curiosity. We will be exploring external touch only in this workshop.

Ant is a sex worker and bodyworker, certified in sexology and embodied counselling. He specialises in embodied learning and touch-based practices that support healing, pleasure and personal growth. His trauma-informed approach integrates both talk-based and somatic modalities to guide GBQT men safely toward meaningful change in their sexuality.