Massage exchange is one of our most popular events. Each group begins with us getting to know each other. Time is given to have a chat and share our experience (or not) of massage. Our coordinator of the evening will then guide us through a grounding exercise to help calm our nerves as we are usually a little nervous/excited at the start. They will then go through our group agreements, so that the space is kept safe to play in. You will then get a chance to choose a partner to massage for the night.
Our coordinator will offer a 15-minute demo that you can choose to practice on your partner. They will also be available over the course of the evening to offer some ways of massaging, should you get stuck (perfect for beginners). However, please note that the massage exchange is not a massage training and our coordinators are not all qualified masseurs.
We create a very safe and relaxed space and with 20 men massaging each other, it can get very sensual and intimate. The group runs for 3hrs so that you get a full hour each for massage. Massage tables and fractionated coconut oil will be provided; just bring along a towel or sarong.
Some of the common questions we get asked:
Yes you can! On the night you could choose to work with somebody with more experience. Also check out what other folks are doing and copy. The coordinator will show you a few yummy strokes at the start if the class to try out and they will be available if you get stuck.
No, but it is a room of men giving sensual and intimate touch to each other and this can include the 🍑 & 🍆. One of our group agreements is that we give & receive external touch only.
Communication is key in our groups. You and your partner get to negotiate the ways in which you would like to be massaged. This can include how you would like your massage to end. 😜
Erections will come and go throughout the practice, what you will discover is that your whole body can receive immense pleasure and not just your 🐓. This group is also great for erection issues and sexual health in general.
We attempt to create a safe and nurturing space that moves away from the usual ideals of attraction and visual bias This is so that every person can receive loving touch regardless of body type, age or colour. It is up to you to negotiate the contact you are willing to give and receive. If you know you have specific preferences in the partners you are grouped with, we recommend that you bring someone with you, who you would like to work with. Matchmaking is not part of our itinerary. 😉
This covers the cost of venue hire, equipment, oil, cleaning, marketing and coordinators fees.