Secret Society of Mindful Self Touch – Melbourne Group

What is the Secret Society?

The Secret Society is so much more than a Circle Jerk.

Sure, it is up to 20 men naked in a circle masturbating, however in this circle we first learn how to play with the ‘Five Erotic Pillars’ of Awareness, Breath, Sound, Movement, Touch.

When we bring these elements into our self-pleasuring practice, we get to feel a deep connection with our own bodies, and we turn our bodies on in a way that is rarely experienced. Because of this in a pretty short period of time we can start to feel very strong body orgasms and pleasure in new parts of our bodies.

Like Yoga or any other body practice the ‘Five Erotic Pillars’ become more powerful over time and repetition, this is why we offer regular classes. I have facilitated so many classes over the years and when we get a group where most of the men have been before and/or practice regularly, the erotic charge in the room becomes incredible.

I mean let’s be honest here, how many times in your life do you get an opportunity to be in a room of up to 20 naked men, masturbating whilst using embodiment practices to bring their bodies to powerful orgasms!

 Some of the common questions we get asked?

Is it an orgy?

No, this is a self-pleasuring space, so you touch and play your own bodies, whilst enjoying others doing the same.

What if I can’t get an erection?

Erections will come and go throughout the practice, what you will discover is that your whole body can give you immense pleasure and not just your cock. This group is also great for erection issues and sexual health in general.

Can I cum at the end?

Yes, however it is the journey and not the destination that we are focused on. Our coordinators will also show you some different ways of ending a session so that you can harness some of that erotic energy and not always have to ejaculate it.

What if I have body issues?

If they are crippling then seek 1 on 1 support from a sexological bodyworker (see Our Team on the website), a group may be too much at first.

If they are mild to challenging, then groups can be an amazing way of changing the stories we carry about our bodies.  Our coordinators can show you ways of keeping yourself safe and supported in the space.

Why does it cost $40

This covers the cost of venue hire, equipment, oil/lube, cleaning, marketing and coordinators fees.

The group runs for 2hrs.

We start by grounding ourselves first as most men are a little to a lot anxious when they first arrive. We then get to say hello to each other, so we are not strangers.

Each month one of our wonderful Nman crew will coordinate the group. Each crew member brings with them various teachings and experience, that can help you integrate and develop your own personal practice. That way in every group you will learn something new and different.

Then we practice together for 1hr.